This week we looked a little closer at the transformative power of radical acceptance in parenthood. You may already notice a tendency to try to 'control' your baby's habits, routines, etc to match your expectations or the ideal expectations of what babies 'should' be doing. Or perhaps you thought you might be a certain type of parent and you're finding you have unexpected resistance or triggers. We considered the concept of radical acceptance as an invitation for more peaceful parenting. We...

Modeling and discussing physical boundaries can be a helpful place to start this conversation - such as, how many times will you pick up the toy they dropped? Or how much twiddling on your nipple while they nurse is ok? By sharing your boundaries they can begin to hear the language you use and also understand the very early stages of consent. Boundaries aren’t something earned, but are a given for all people no matter their age. Help them understand that their boundaries will be respected by...

Process art is child-directed, choice-driven, and celebrates the experience of discovery. The final product is always unique and the focus lies in the creation or process, not the outcome. Product art is adult driven and there’s a specific outcome in mind and we're seeking a final product. There’s usually a wrong and a right way to do it. This kind of art can set kids up for frustration, disappointment and shame - it's not really supportive of setting them up for a positive relationship with...