Free Range Babies

We talked about free-range babies today with the idea that this invitation may be a bit ahead of where you are right now. It can take time to trust your baby and give them some space to explore. "Babies and toddlers needn’t be wrapped in cotton wool. They are a lot more capable and robust than you might think, and completely washable!"

This is the article I referenced: https://happinessishereblog.com/free-range-baby-why-freedom-starts-from-birth/

I LOVE this concept. I waited too long to allow my own baby some freedom to explore away from me and the space to build his trust in his body - the older they get, the higher the stakes for risky play and without some experience, they can put themselves in some tricky situations. For most parents this will be a personal stretch and a big lesson in trust. Rest assured that they are learning so much and gaining such great experience when we allow them some freedom. Within reason of course, baby proofing and general safety is still important. 

Some steps to consider: 

• Allow a little space away as your baby is playing in a 'yes zone' and notice how they respond. 

• Wait a moment before following your baby if they begin to crawl away, obviously keep them in view

• Don't interrupt their play when they're engaging independently with nature or toys

• Get close to them when they're near something unsafe to point it out and provide support

• Teach them how to get down from places like edges and stairs by rolling them on their bellies and talk about 'feet first'

• Consider changing 'Be Careful' or expressing your own anxiety, consider phrases like 'Do you see the edge" "Do you need help'

• Gentle boundaries and reflective language are really helpful for baby explorations.

Freedom in childhood is something to consider at every stage along with trusting your child to engage at their own pace and with their own preferences and interests!